Becoming a life winner from infancy

Chapter 243 205 I didn't plan to rely on my son from the beginning.

Although Fang Guanghui had a low overall talent evaluation, at least he was a civil servant rooted in an official unit, and reading people's emotions was a skill he learned over time.

Last I checked, Daddy Xia clearly disliked how his daughter favored You You over him and was feeling quite humiliated and unhappy about it.

As a reliable adult, I ought to soothe his feelings properly.

This, of course, wasn't for him, it was for me!

Otherwise, if father and daughter haven't reconciled by tomorrow, wouldn't I be the one to lead everyone in fun? How would I plan anything?

I'm just here to make up the numbers!

Fang Guanghui had a sober self-awareness about himself.

A few steps into the shopping street outside the hotel, Fang Guanghui patted Xia Anyang's shoulder, beginning to counsel Xia Anyang.

"Hey, Old Xia, why are you so fiery today? We rarely get to travel together, and it's such a precious opportunity. You should be happy, you know, relaxed. Relaxed, get it? By pressuring Nuo Nuo like that, not letting her do this, and not letting her do that, Nuo Nuo naturally will feel uncomfortable too."

To be honest, Xia Anyang didn't enjoy heart-to-hearts with Fang Guanghui, but he did hope that someone would take over his litany of complaints, so he went along and griped:

"She's never been this disobedient before. In the past month, I've noticed she's been getting more and more out of control, almost like she's staging a rebellion."

"Kids grow up, and it's normal for them to have their own ideas. Nuo Nuo is almost nine, she might be entering puberty, right? I remember girls hit puberty earlier."

"What kid hits puberty at nine? Isn't that a bit early to mature?"

At this, Fang Guanghui burst into laughter, "Then tell me, what age do you think You You acts like?'

"Your You You is different; you can't lump him in with the rest."

After all, Fang You was a genius, his thoughts and insights far beyond those of his peers.

So Nuo Nuo's disobedient behavior, could it be related to You You?

Honestly, although Fang You sometimes made people angry, most of the time, he gave Xia Anyang peace of mind, being a child who dealt with problems calmly rather than emotionally. Stay connected via empire

Without him, my relationship with Nuo Nuo seems to only get worse.

Ah, what a mess...

"That's what I mean, I think Nuo Nuo is just growing up. Us parents finding it hard to accept our children growing up is normal. Just relax; it's an unavoidable part of their growth journey."

"..."

"Why are you staring at me like that? Is there something on my face?"

Fang Guanghui asked, puzzled.

His talent in composition, rhythm, and musical sense could be considered exceptionally gifted.

But if it were only this talent that he possessed, that would be one thing.

The scariest part is that there hardly seems to be anything he's not good at.

Dad's experience and wisdom are completely useless in front of You You, unable to earn his admiration.

Could it be that Fang Guanghui's seemingly negligent and unreliable behavior is actually a different expression of his fatherly love?

Some say that inconveniencing others is also a way to close the distance between them.

For Fang Guanghui, it's very hard to do anything better than You You.

So... instead of struggling like a clown, trying to get his son to recognize his own level of ability, wouldn't it be more free-spirited and natural to admit from the start that he's not as good as his son?

...

Is that really the case?

Fang Guanghui watched as Xia Anyang fell into contemplation, furrowing his brows and carefully pondering as if he was thinking about something very serious.

Although he had just suddenly remembered that he had prematurely lost his ability to act as a real dad and raged a bit, it seemed to have struck a chord with Xia Anyang.

I seem to have succeeded in talking my way out of this! I'm so awesome!

So Fang Guanghui, seizing the moment, coughed and continued:

"Anyway, what I mean is, kids grow up in the blink of an eye."

"No matter how much you worry and care, you actually can't change anything. Nuo Nuo's situation is just like that. It's nothing, just growing up and starting to have her own thoughts. If you expect her to listen to you in everything like in the past, that's already impossible."

"But now she doesn't listen to me. Do I have to listen to her?"

"The way You You and I get along is simple: whoever is right, we listen to them."

"So when you buy clothes and go home later, take a shower first, calm down, then calmly talk to Nuo Nuo, and persuade her to sleep in the same room as you."

"What if that still doesn't work?"

Fang Guanghui scratched his head, "If it really doesn't work, let's just ask You You to talk to Nuo Nuo. Trust me, this trick never fails, incredibly effective. There's nothing in our house that You You can't solve. He even helps me calculate my tax returns and polishes up my year-end summaries."

You're basically letting You You play dad for you, hey!

But however much nonsense Fang Guanghui had chatted with Xia Anyang about, Xia Anyang's mood had indeed become much lighter.

There's no need to make everyone so tense while out having fun.

After all, both of these kids are still children. Even though Nuo Nuo can be a bit unreasonable, You You probably won't let her go too far...